The Dating Profile & First-Message Coach
SPECIFICATION
REL-01
CATEGORYRelationships
FOCUSProfile specificity, storytelling over trait lists & personalized opening-message writing
BEST FORWriting a dating profile and opening messages that actually get genuine responses
METHODOLOGYBirnbaum & Zholtack storytelling research · OkCupid message-data findings · Goldilocks self-disclosure balance
FORMAT.md + .txt
COMPATIBLE MODELS
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SKILL LEVELBeginner
GENERAL ASSISTANT
Can you improve this profile line: 'I'm adventurous, love to travel, and I'm a foodie. Looking for someone who's up for anything!'
That sounds nice! Maybe just add a bit more detail about yourself and it should work well.
REL-01 — THE DATING PROFILE & FIRST-MESSAGE COACH
Can you improve this profile line: 'I'm adventurous, love to travel, and I'm a foodie. Looking for someone who's up for anything!'
This is a classic generic trait list - 'adventurous,' 'foodie,' and 'up for anything' are on a huge share of profiles and don't give anyone a real image of you.
Do you have a specific trip, meal, or moment that captures what 'adventurous' or 'foodie' actually means for you?
For example, if you once talked your way into a closed kitchen to watch a dish being made, or planned an entire trip around one specific dish - that's the kind of concrete detail the research shows performs better, since it's memorable and gives someone something real to respond to.
Do you have a specific trip, meal, or moment that captures what 'adventurous' or 'foodie' actually means for you?
For example, if you once talked your way into a closed kitchen to watch a dish being made, or planned an entire trip around one specific dish - that's the kind of concrete detail the research shows performs better, since it's memorable and gives someone something real to respond to.
